So can anyone guess what's first on the list? (Hint: It's good to read this everyday)
1. The Bible- this is the most inexpensive and powerful gift you can get someone! You can check your local Borders and even your local churches if your interested on not spending so much! There's really no need to wrap it up, but you can if you want! :) You wanna show you care and assist him in living a good life, smack him with a bible for Christmas! If that man doesn't praise you for that gift, drop him! lol Invite him to church! Invite him to bible study! This will be the most fulfilling gift this year! I know...it's thick!
2. I am in the world of fashion, so next up Christian Louboutin Sneakers and 2010 Louis Vuitton Loafer... yes, the red soles are not only made for us ladies...so share the love if he's worth it! Check them out below:
Warning: These shoes are not for everyone
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Warning: These shoes are not for everyone
2010 Louis Vuitton Men Fall Line Collection
Set the mood right, cook his favorite dish....this is a no kids zone!!! If you need me to babysit, then email me! Preparation is the key! Ladies, this has to be for a guy that is WORTH it! You can't just be tricking your goods for anyone! :)
Let him digest the food so wait a while before you start his massage session and begin! Take your time with each section, ask him where does he feel the most stress at, how's the pressure, is the lighting ok? Ladies, don't talk too much tho, the man is trying to relax...so this is not the time you begin to ask foolish questions!
(Rolleyes)
Your man may even love soccer or golf...study him and find out. The NBA dunking contest has been a little wack these past years, so I wouldn't put my money on it...but you get my gist!
Secondly, get this man some good seats! Don't have him out in the stands squinting...just throw in the a couple of more bucks and this may result into less eating out!
Lastly, your man can't go alone! I know, i know...I might be a little crazy for saying this, but ya might have to get an extra ticket for his friend! Before you do this, if his friend has a wife or long term gf, see if she is willing to go in on the gift. If not, (rolleyes) buy it! It's not about his annoying friend ladies, it's about making sure your man has a blast and someone to share it with! Some of you may be saying, well I love sports, I can go with him...uhhhhhh, (scratching my forehead) no! It's not the same ladies, I don't have an explanation for this...just trust me!
5. OMG....If your man is not up to technology, skip this number! If your man is, get the BLACKBERRY MORUSUCKING PLAYBOOK...sorry (proper voice) Blackberry Playbook...So Apple has the iPad and sure enough their competitor is unveiling the Playbook!
*offers 2 high-def cameras, one for video chats and the other for camera/camcorder
*Slot for USB and HDMI connectivity
*Flash support- you can visit websites not accessible on the iPad
Other things to include on this list are (iPad, Mac Notebook,iPhone, latest Blackberry, HP Slab, 3D TV,iPod Touch, Playstation etc.)
6. Man, I am excited...ok, next up! Buy or create an object that signifies a goal he wants to accomplish! I may have lost some ppl, because there's nothing materialistic about this! Now, we got to think deeper and wiser! Buy him books or motivate him into getting into the career path he has been called to follow!
He wants to be a comedian, get him some gigs at a comedy show (make sure he is funny tho, and if he doesn't get any laughs, you make sure you laugh your hardest)
He wants to be a rapper, tell him "baby, spit something for me" critique him and be honest. Encourage him! He wants to be a doctor...set goals with him and sign him up for prep mcat courses!
I know I joke around alot, but seriously I truly to believe we all have a purpose in life, and I think you should encourage your spouse into tapping into that purpose...the blessing you will receive in return is priceless!
7. Be prayerful and have a clean home- Again, i know some of you at home are saying "what is she talking about?!?" Ladies, be clean, mow your lawn, and pray...moving right along!
8.Whew...we are almost done...so get him a Tailored Suit!
For tailored suits, try http://www.indochino.com/collection/Suits they have amazzzing custom suits!!! Zara, Bloomingdales,to name a few...Now if you you have a man who is really into suits, and most men are not...honestly they are not, but if so...Oswald Boateng has a great line, Tom Ford, Giorgio Armani, and Hugo Boss...Classic!
Oswald Boateng
Celebs below are all wearing designs from Tom Ford Collection...
9. 2 words- STAGE PLAY! Dress up, act as someone else! One of my friends told me to keep her relationship alive, her and her spouse go out on dates and arrive seperately! (take a cab) They pretend they never met each other before annnnnnnd ACTION!!! Ladies, where a wig with a trench coat with lingerie underneath that matches! (note: I advise this choice to married couples...it wouldn't be cool if your ex experiences this part of you! (lol) Be confident and fierce!
Please, make eye contact throughout! ...practice if you have to. Let the sexyness oooozzzeee out of you. After a whole bunch of errotic talk throughout dinner, tell the waiter "Check please" and pay the bill! Leave out together in a cab, no one should be driving themselves home during this experience!
10. Finally, last on my list a good woman! Now, you may know of some top notch quality single fellas! For instance, your husband/bf /brother may have some great male friends...I am not saying you should play matchmaker! Have a social gathering or a games day at your house and let things naturally happen!
Your just sponsoring your home, that's all! :)
Many guy want a top notch quality chick! Trust, I made the mistake before I told myself, "oh, my friend wouldn't like him" Absolutely False!!! You don't know everything your friend likes! As a matter of fact, you will be surprised the types of qualities your friend may desire in a guy!
Stop being a hater, and have a games day this weekend...make it happen. When he connects with a special lady...wish them happy holidays and state if they have any issues in their relationship to go seek God and their pastor for help... :)
Things that didn't make the list
- Nice watch
- One Centralized Remote Control-takes care of the tv, stereo system, etc...Warning: May produce lazyness
- Diamond studs- I had to put this on, yep...the trend is still alive for men...no hoops tho, leave that to Jordan!
- Sounds/Beats for his car
- Boxers/undergarments-You can never have too much (AX, Joe Boxers, Express,etc...)
- Love- Call your brother,friend, father,uncle, nephew, grandfather, son, cousin...tell them you love them if you do! We can be ready for tomorrow, but we can't predict it
